emailed with these questions so I decided
to do a Q & A section on my site
So here it goes if there is something that
you think I should add just email me and
I will try and add them for ya as well!!!
Gia can you help me become a girl or get
me in to modeling like you???
No I cant help you become a girl but I
can give you ideas/advice on how to go about
getting started or simply sharing my experience
with you I'm not a psychologist or therapist
but I can recommend clinics or doctor that
have worked for me. And they can give you
I'm often called for casting talk
shows or documentaries here in the US and
Europe so sometimes if something comes up
and I have your picture I might be able
to point you towards some work.
What age do you think is to old to start
I don't think that there is a right
age although the younger you start its much
easier to stop your body from ageing like
a male I started my change (hormones) at
the age of 14 (I'm not saying you
should do that just because I did) before
you start taking any kind of hormones you
should consult your doctor you will be surprised
most Dr.'s are very understanding
about this matter and even if you're
a bit older it might be a bit harder or
take a bit more as far as surgery or hormones
but its never to late, its all about being
Gia can I meet you or do you escort????
Yes you can meet me I'm often in NY
for parties or other events here in the
US or Europe
But no I don't escort you can come
by and say hi at any type of public event
Gia have you really had all those cosmetic
procedures and how much did they cost?
Yes I have had around 45 procedures (and
I'm still not done ) the cost has
been over $150K.
Did you have all that surgery all at once????
No I have had all the surgery in a process
of 3 yrs and about 4 different batches.
I see that you are always talking about
Dr Mayer does he pay you?
NOT AT ALL!!! He has done all of my surgeries
(with the exception of my breast) and I'm
very happy with his work that's why
I have nothing but wonderful things to say
about him and his staff.
Why so much surgery do you think your addicted?
No I don't think I'm addicted
I know what I want to look like and I wont
stop until I feel in the out side like I
do in the inside I think that many people
go out and buy make up go to the tanning
salon get their nails done and they do this
to look good and feel better about themselves
that's why I do it as well its just
that my ways might be a bit more invasive
so no I'm not addicted I just know
what I want!!!!!
Gia can you help me financially to become
a woman like you?
As much as I would love to I cant but I
know it can be costly but sometimes we have
to prioritize I remember when I did not
have money I knew what I wanted and if it
meant not going to the movies or not buying
that dress I did it I just saved my money
as much as I could and eventually I did
it I saved the whole $5000 for my first
boob job at the age of 18 from working 2
jobs so its possible people!!! (yes even
if you're a TS and you don't
have to escort)
Are the surgeries painful?
Well that depends how bad you want it? Yes
there is a bit of pain or discomfort but
what always keeps me going is the fact that
when all the bandages come off I will look
better so in the end if there is any pain
to me its worth it!!!!!!!!!!
Do you plan on having sexual reassignment
yes in my case i do see me having my final GRS surgery and slowing things down and enjoying all that i have worked so hard for all these years but i do .
think that femininity is in your head
not between your legs!!
when the time comes i will move forward with that final stage of my life it will not alter who i am what i have had to deal with in life but eventually it will be the the little period at the end of the last sentence of what is to be my wonderful life story
I find transsexual
girls attractive does that make me gay?
I think that its very sad that we have to
always find a label for people I think that
what matters is that your with someone that
makes you happy the few men that I have
dated or been with have never been with
a TS girl before but they liked me for who
I am not what I have between my legs they
knew it was there but it did not bother
them does that make them gay? I don't know
I think that if you have to label yourself
then do it other than that its just life
enjoy it its too short to be worried about
what others might think of you plus you
might miss out on being with a wonderful
girl that just happens to be a TS and remember
we are no different than any other girl
we have the same dreams hopes and all that
good stuff so don't make a huge deal on
how do I approach a TS girl? What do I say?
Just be yourself and talk to us like you
would any other girl!!!!
In the end we are all just looking for true
WHERE OR HOW DO START TRANSITIONING?
This is the most popular question I get asked time after time)
The most important thing is to realize that you are truly following your heart and who you are and that this is not something you do because of attention or the way the clothing feels on your body
Itís very important to have physiological guidance during the first part of your transitioning as it will help you in the future with a referral if itís requested by a plastic surgeon (some Drís do ask for referrals for breast implants and for sure for SRS)
And a psychologist can also help with referrals to Drís that can work with you with hormonal treatment
The other million dollar question is where do I go to find a Dr thatís comfortable dealing with patients that have gender issues??
I have always worked with local gay and lesbian centers they are an amazing resource with people that are with in our community and often donate their time and treatment to people that might have limited resources
You can find the number to your local center by calling information or looking it up on line there are always centers or clubs that work with the community no matter how small of a town you live
You just have to look!
Remember!!! You are making a change that will be in a way drastic and nothing is easy
The most important thing is to keep your head up and never forget where it is that you want to be and donít let any obstacles take away from the goal you have in mind!
I was once a boy from the wrong side of the tracks that had blonde curvaceous dreams!
I had many reasons why not to go on but I never gave up!\
Anything worth having often takes a bit of time and work!
Good luck and remember!!! Keep your head up and eventually you will be where you want to be!
So you want to date a Transsexual girl?
Transsexual dating, is an option most heterosexual men have never considered...until of course such a guy meets an appealing transsexual woman and finds himself intrigued. At that point, the guy could actually consider transsexual dating.
I get so many emails asking me how to approach or talk to a transsexual girl from guys that are often looking for more than a sexual encounter or an ďexperimentĒ it makes me so happy to give advice like this because often us transsexual girls are looked at as object or just sexual experiments witch in a way is very sad that people will not see how average we are when you compare us to other genetic born females
I think that often the fact that some of us work in adult related industries adds to that horrible stereo type that we are just good for sex and nothing else itís a sad that Iím often bunched up in to that stereotype
When in reality most of us transsexual girls are no different than any other girl we all in the end want to have that wonderful guy that will love us and except us no matter what and see beyond what we have between our legs and concentrate on what truly matters in any relationship and thatís the heart because I rarely think that we fall in love with someoneís penis or their vagina but in how they are as a person
Love is something beyond physical attraction its something you feel in your tummy and should not see sex or color or anything superficial like that
Its just about two people enjoying and excepting each other in every single way
In other words donít look at a transsexual girl like we are some sort of little monster from the green lagoon when in reality most of us that might be in search of love donít want to be treated any different that you would treat any other girl you might have a fancy for
So show respect donít be just another pervert using cheep and unoriginal sexual innuendo because I promise you that its not attractive ask yourself is this something I would ask a genetic female if I was out to dinner with her??
Thatís what often kills me when people ask me or say things to me that I know for a fact they would never ask if I was a genetic female so thatís the first thing you should keep in mind!!!!!!!
There is nothing wrong with asking questions specially if you have never been out with a transsexual girl
Its not the questions you ask but how you ask them
I promise you that most of us girls are more than willing to answer them
Personally I think that when you talk to a transsexual girl and get to know her and get past the whole sexual attraction you will find that most of us are no different than any other human out there with fears, hopes and dreams
In another note there is the girls that are out looking for sexual encounters and donít want boyfriends as long as both of you know what you want and are doing it carefully than have fun
But if you know that a girl is out looking for something serious donít play with her head or her emotions before you take things to a more serious level make sure that you are prepared to go there because you cant be in different pages guys often worry about what friends or family might think
And are often put of to taking the relationship to the next level
All I have to say to that is that you have to be happy with yourself and your life there will always be someone who has something to say but if you love and care about someone then be true to yourself and stand up for who you love and what you enjoy in the privacy of your own bedroom its your deal and no one elseís!!!!!
In closing donít treat or act any different than you would if you where out with a genetic girl get some flowers and go to dinner and get to her as a person!
You can also find allot of useful info on this web site that explains so much and will help you learn allot about us girlies!!!! Good luck and hope my babbling helped or at least made you think!!!!
as always much love!!!